He may, or may not, but he is not supportive either way. In the previous example, the “please” was left out intentionally. He will not say “thank you”, “you’re welcome”, “please” or even “excuse me” to you.“Honey, go pick up some soda for me.” sounds like a genuine request for assistance. It is because he is expecting you to comply with his requests.Specifically taking on NRA chief Wayne La Pierre‘s now infamous claim that “Good guys with guns kill bad guys with guns,” the veterans said that gun owners cannot simply will themselves to become heroes in high stress situations.“I think there’s this fantasy world of gunplay in the movies, but it doesn’t really happen that way.If he forces you to do things, against your will, he is not in love with you.Whether it is going to a baseball game, when you hate outdoor stadiums, or, even more harsh an act, makes you perform sexually against your will, he is NOT in love with you.If you are in a relationship where it seems that you have no time to yourself, chances are you have a controlling boyfriend. There is no more “girls night out” for you and your friends, unless he is with you. When you do go out, it is to an event that HE chooses.You may not feel like going to a movie, but it is what he wants to do, for example.
We all can find love in so many people that are in our lives already.He will ignore answering the question, and make you feel guilty for asking it. In an argument with a controlling personality, it is very difficult for him to accept defeat. If you have just lost a job, or if you are experiencing normal hormonal reactions, this is the time he will strike.The controlling boyfriend will get more defensive, change the subject, or bring up a past occurrence, when he was, indeed, correct, in order to prove his point with the issue at hand. He wants you to feel as if life is not worth living without him. Unfortunately, love is not everything to some people. The world we live in may be a reason to become paranoid of strangers, and suspicious of our own family, at times.However, when you are in a relationship, those feelings should subside.Putting himself in a “father figure” position will install more of a sense of control.